Any man who’s comfortable with a woman giving him money for her bride price is a lazy and shameless impostor, and should be avoided.
In Africa any woman who gets up 23-26 years of age without being married to a man, naturally lose every reason to be happy. Being married and the ability to remain in the marriage defies successful women in Africa.
This is so serious that even when a woman gets sound education,
-a good pay job,
-and acquires a lot of wealth and societal importance, such women will not be respected if they’re not genuinely married.
For this, African ladies crave for marriage at a very early age. Now, being married eventually is not just the worries but at which age is the marriage taking place?
To achieve this African society concept of value, many single ladies have accepted liabilities in the name of husbands.
I personally have problem with women given money to pay their bride price
Bride price in Africa is one of the cheapest transactions you can think of, presently it is cheaper picking up a pair of shoes from a Conner shops.
Why then consider a man who cannot afford bride price over a woman’s he wants to marry?
These categories of men are not ideal for marriage;
-Most men are not genuine.
-Genuine men who do not have money at the point in time when they wish to marry will either post pone the process.
– Or make sure they take care of that aspect of bride price single handedly. Which the lady supports in other aspects.
-Any man who’s comfortable with a woman giving him money for bride price is a lazy and shameless impostor, and should be avoided.
-Don’t give him money for your bride price otherwise, later he will remind you of;
-How you persuaded him into marrying you by providing money for your dowry.
-Be sides, if you provide money for your dowry, there is no limit to what you will be expected to do when you marry him. So, wait for the real man.
-Real men take absolute charge, and pride themselves for doing so.
Written by Sam Zewas