There is a lot to offer in every relationship. For example, backing your man up, spiritually, physically, mentally and financially. Most ladies do not care about all these; supports. They make unnecessary demands and don’t know that they are supposed to help their man save instead of indulging extravagant spending.
So many girls have this complain that guys do walk away from them simply because; they declined to their sexual advances. While some are, tempted to give out their virginity, in order for the guys not to leave them. But unknowingly to them, it is as result of their character.
It may not be all about not giving in their virginity or refusing having sex with them. It may be for some other reasons. For instance; the biblical story of ten virgins. All were virgins, but the difference was that, while 5 were wise, the rest 5 were foolish.The wise virgins were not permitted to see the bridegroom not because they have lost their virginity, but because, they had no extra oil.
The extra oil in this context is character.
In some ladies, when it comes to character, they lack it. The issue here is not going into relationship, but keeping the relationship, i.e., making it last.What some do is to brag about being a virgin. Some might have lost their virginity when not being in the Lord, but immediately you are a new creature in Christ Jesus, you are already a virgin in the Lord.
There is a lot to offer in every relationship. For example, backing your man up, spiritually, physically, mentally and financially. Most ladies do not care about all these supports. They make unnecessary demands and do not know that they should help their man save instead of indulging him in extravagant spending.
At times your advice counts. You have to be that woman that always have something meaningful to offer. You can help him plan his future, no man is an island, and we need each other all the time. Help him build confidence in you; that he can always get creative ideas from you. ”Character keeps a relationship, which is the extra oil”. Therefore, strive to work on your character and pray God to help you overcome in any way you are lagging.
Make yourself an essential commodity, this will make your man not to afford to lose you. Yes! No one is perfect; we all have flaws, but try and realize those flaws and then work on them prayerfully.