There are important things that cannot be ignored for a long distance relationship to thrive. Keeping away from your loved one for a long period can be very wearisome and also causes emotional discomfort.
More especially when you need a hug, kiss, that warm smile, and a little pampering and they cannot give it to you. These little things matters a lot and keeps the relationship healthy.
When distance separates you, for instance, if your partner is the type that travels most times maybe due to the of his/her job, both need to be involved in keeping a relationship going even.
If you happen to find yourself in t this type of situation and as well running out of ideas, here are some tips on how to keep the love-flame burning.
KEEP REGULAR CONTACT
Communicate often: This is one of the essential key for a lasting relationship. Also try and pay a visit so as to see each other and to know how he /she is living.Though it has to be discussed, like, how many times to visit in a year? Who is going to do the traveling? And if the traveling costs will be shared or not.
DO NOT GIVE HIM/HER SPACE
This also has to do with communicating with each other. Do not let a day slide by without saying hello. It takes different forms; it can be by texting often, calling, doing email, using Skype and video chat.
HAVE A COMMON GOAL
Love the things he loves and vice versa. Do and plan together, whether he/she is there physically or not. Phone, Skype, and video call are there. Eat together except in some cases, watch television program and cook together.
PLAN THE FUTURE TOGETHER
Draw and share the future plans for the family together, for the way forward. These help to strengthen the relationship, because you both will know that the mutual goals are shared together.
KEEP A GOOD LEGACY
Do that thing that you will be remembered for, maybe an exchange of personal objects that is linked to you, it could be your cherished necklace, perfume, picture, even good deeds, anything that will always remind him/her of you.
Of all these that above mentioned tips, what really keeps every relationship booming are good communication and transparency. Distance can never be a barrier or cause separation